You’re more like your players than you think

Alexis at Coaches Corner has a really insightful post. Basically, it’s a series of questions which demonstrate how similar coaching and playing are.

There’s a bit of irony involved here. In the book Volleyball Coaching Wizards – Wizard Wisdom there’s a chapter on how the coach needs to put aside the player inside themselves (assuming they are/were a player). I should note, my co-author on that book is Alexis’ brother Mark.

The point Alexis makes, though, is quite different from the one Mark and I make in the book. We, with the help of Julio Velasco by way of Glenn Hoag, speak to the mentality of players vs. coaches. In contrast, Alexis speaks to the day-to-day experience and reality of coaches and players.

Think about things like maintaining focus throughout, the struggle to make positive changes and retain them under pressure, and the fact that we sometimes make bad decisions. Alexis’ final point is this.

If you find it hard, the athletes probably do as well.

I would add an additional suggestion.

As a coach you are just as much a performer as your players. The context is different, but you need to be just as aware of your potential developmental and performance challenges as you want your players to be.

It might be a useful exercise to write down what you like and don’t like about coach, as I once asked a player to do about playing.

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John Forman

John is a volleyball coach, performance director, and coach educator with 20+ years of experience across the NCAA (all three divisions plus junior college), university and club volleyball in the UK, professional coaching in Sweden, and juniors clubs. He has also served as a visiting coach with national team, professional club, and juniors programs in multiple countries.

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