Team-building is a common topic of coaching discussions. It’s something we addressed in the second Volleyball Coaching Wizards book. I often see in coaching discussion threads ideas for team-bonding exercises – or the requests for them. While reading Barking Up the Wrong Tree by Eric Barker I actually came across an interesting tidbit on the subject.
“And what about forming friendships with coworkers? This is another excellent idea. You can’t rely on HR team-bonding exercises; studies show they’re only effective at building distrust.”
The first two sentences focus on the individual. The author is basically saying you should go out and make friends among your co-workers on a 1-on-1 basis. There are a number of benefits to doing so. It’s something to encourage our players to do, and something we should do ourselves with our peers.
For this discussion, though, I want to focus on the last sentence. That’s where things shift to group exercises meant to bring everyone closer. You can probably think of some you’ve either done or heard about (like the famous one in this book). Sounds like those can actually be counterproductive.
The author has more on the subject in this post from his blog, including links to the resources from which he got that information. Definitely check it out before you run your next team-building exercise.
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